Role of Personality in the Nanny & Family Match

The Nanny/Family relationship generally becomes an intimate one; the parties in the relationship often interact on a personal level much more often than in other employment arrangements. Therefore, personality match plays an important role in the long term success of the relationship. You want to carefully assess personality, lifestyle and philosophical approach to childcare.

Families: Consider your family's style when completing this section - what type of individual will you and your family be more comfortable with - outgoing, reserved, laid back, or take charge? If you prefer to give the nanny a lot of specific dos and don'ts you will look for someone who takes direction well. For the family that wants to give broad instruction and leave the execution details to the nanny, you will want someone who can take charge, recognize and address needs as they arise. Your children will generally become very attached to their care-giver and frequent turnover due to personality mis-match is not in anyone's best interest.

Nannies: Consider your response in your interview carefully. Be honest in your self-assessment as families will rely on your answers in their employment decisions.